Christmas Games for Families

Eight games chosen for mixed ages, where nobody has to be carried and nobody has to sit out.

Playing together at Christmas means playing with the people who are actually there — a child who cannot read yet, a teenager who would rather not perform, a grandparent who will play anything as long as it is sitting down. No one game suits all of them, so the useful question is not “what is the best family game?” but “which of these fits our table tonight?”

Every one of our 23 games can be played as a family; these 8 are the ones we would hand a mixed-age gathering first, because they ask the least of the person who is least sure about joining in. 6 of them are played sitting down, 4 have everyone playing at once, and 3 have no winner at all. If none of them fits, the whole library is a scroll away.

The eight

Choose your family game

Players, ages and time from each game’s record, and the four things a mixed-age table decides on — whether it is played sitting down, whether everyone plays at once, who is on the spot, and whether anyone wins.

Try this when…

Six things a family usually knows before it chooses, and the game in this set that fits each one — chosen from the records, with the reason shown.

the youngest are joining in
Hidden Candy Cane Huntages 4+ · everyone at once
three generations are at the table
Christmas Bingositting down · no one on the spot · everyone at once
you want everyone playing at the same time
Left-Right Gift Exchangeeveryone at once · 6–20 players
there is only a short window before dinner
Christmas Story Builderabout 15 min · no prep
you would rather nobody lost
Christmas Would You Ratherno winner · sitting down
everyone needs to get up and move
Christmas Charadesup and about · in teams

Playing across the generations

When children, adults and older relatives are all playing, the game has to work for the one who is least sure about it. These are the things to look at on each card.

Start from the minimum age, not the average

The age on each card is the age at which a child can play properly, not just be present. In this set it runs from 4 to 7. Choose for the youngest player who will genuinely take part; a game pitched at the adults leaves the children as an audience, and an audience of children is a short one.

Look at who is on the spot

Some games are one person performing for everyone else — acting, drawing, singing — and some have no spotlight at all. A confident nine-year-old will love the first kind; a shy relative, or a grandparent who did not expect to be the entertainment, will love the second. The trait line on each card says which it is.

Everyone at once bridges the ages

A game where everyone plays at the same time — a card to mark, a choice to make, a thing to find — never leaves a six-year-old waiting through six adults’ turns. Where a game takes turns, teams do the same job: a child paired with an adult contributes without carrying the round alone.

Sitting down is not the lesser choice

6 of these 8 are played from a chair, which is what makes them playable by the relative with the bad knee and the toddler on someone’s lap at the same time. Save the ones that get everyone up for when the room needs it, and go back to the table afterwards.

A winner is optional

3 of the eight have no winner: the game ends when it ends, and nobody lost. With very small children, or a competitive streak in the family that has spoiled a Christmas before, that is a feature to choose on purpose.

How to choose a family Christmas game

How many of you are there?

Four of you around a table is a different evening from fourteen in a living room. Each card gives the smallest and largest group the game works for; a game with no upper limit scales to whoever turns up, and one that needs six will not work with three.

How much time do you actually have?

Between the meal and the film, or after the presents and before the walk, a family rarely has more than half an hour. Every game here runs about fifteen to twenty minutes; the card says which. Pick the one that fits the gap rather than the one you would most like to play if there were time.

Is the family in a talking mood or a doing mood?

Some of these are conversation with a structure — a dilemma to argue over, a story to build a sentence at a time. Others are quiet concentration, and others are movement. Match the mood the room is already in; a game that fights the room loses.

What do you need to have ready?

3 of these need nothing at all; 2 need something wrapped or printed before you start. Read the trait line and the “you need” on the game’s own page, and decide on the day before rather than the hour before.

Not one of these 8?

These are starting points, not the whole of what a family can play. Every game in the library suits families; the Game Finder asks who is there, how many and what the evening needs, and picks from all twenty-three — or browse the full list with every game’s rules.

Making a family game session work

Choose for the least enthusiastic person

Not the one who suggested playing — the one who agreed to. If they can understand the game from one sentence and join in without being watched, everyone else will be fine.

Let people contribute differently

A small child can be the one who draws the next card, keeps the score, or holds the bowl. A grandparent can judge. Nobody has to do the same thing to be playing the same game.

Use teams to pair up the ages

Where a game runs in teams, put a child with an adult rather than the children together. It levels the game and it changes who talks to whom, which is half the point of playing.

Change the kind of game, not just the game

After something loud, something seated; after something with a winner, something without one. Two guessing games in a row feel like one long one, however different their rules.

Stop while it is still fun

One round more than everyone wanted is what people remember. End when the youngest starts to drift, not when the planned list is finished — the list was for you, not for them.

These are 8 of 23. Browse all 23 Christmas games

Every game in the library can be played as a family — quizzes, word games, gift exchanges, games for two and games for a crowd — with full rules, or the Finder to pick one for the people who are actually in the room.

Browse all 23 Christmas games

Let the Finder choose